Lost 45 lbs, < 30 to go
Before I begin, weight can be a sensitive subject, and I know I'm very lucky I could retire earlier than normal. If any of this blog is salt in the wound, sincerely sorry. Wasn't my intent.
Mostly, I just want to figure out my weight loss success this year, and to think out loud a little about what made it possible.
Here we go...
One of the main reasons I decided to retire a few years ago was to have the time to work on getting down to a healthy weight and get rid of the stress, but I got distracted with the freedom the first couple of years, focusing more on the truck camper and cross country road trips at first. Solved the stress half at least.
Got a new Primary Doctor
Surprising myself a little, I signed up with a new primary doctor after going without one for 15 years. What's that corny pun/saying? Living in Denial ain't just a river in Egypt. My previous doctor retired over a decade ago, and I just let things slide. I think not getting a new doctor was just me avoiding my weight issues.
During the initial wellness visit back in early June, after giving my family's and personal health history, I explained I wanted to lose weight and get healthier, and I gave a rough outline of my diet and exercise plan. My new doctor gave the go ahead. I think that's an important first step. I'm now down to 252.8 lbs as of Nov 23rd, starting from 293 back in June. Officially 40lbs lighter! My recent blood work (Nov 18th) was good too. Only the LDL and MPV values were just barely above the good range, but my doctor pinged via the mychart app saying not to worry. Those values will come down into the healthy range as I lose more weight, and everything else was in the healthy range. I even got my first colonoscopy done in September, no major issues found. Yay adulting!
Mostly Bean and Lentils Diet
My new diet plan was eating mostly bean and lentil based dishes with roasted, low-starch veggies. Yeah, you may toot more at first, but the toots don't smell (once you're eating mostly plant based). Long term, your digestion will improve dramatically. It's worth it, beans have so many benefits, read this https://health.clevelandclinic.org/benefits-of-beans
Assuming you read the link above, I want to stress that bit about how beans (and lentils) support the good bacteria in your gut and why it matters so much. From online...
Good bacteria (probiotics) in your gut help weight loss by influencing calorie absorption, boosting metabolism, regulating appetite hormones (like GLP-1, PYY), reducing inflammation, and even affecting fat storage, primarily by breaking down fiber into beneficial short-chain fatty acids (SCFAs) like butyrate, making you feel fuller and less prone to gaining weight, though effectiveness depends heavily on specific strains and individual gut makeup
I've also been cooking everything for myself, even bread. I can even make a decent 50% whole wheat sourdough bread now, using my own sourdough starter, also helping gut health (good bacteria). I still use eggs and dairy in recipes, so I haven't gone full vegan. I still eat meat occasionally too.
Here are my other blogs about diet/food related stuff
Finding Sustainable Diet Changes, recipe list
How to cook beans and lentils in your Instant Pot
How to roast veggies in the air fryer, more pots to clean but foolproof
Unexpected Home Cooking Backfire
Learned the hard way that cooking at home does not automatically mean losing weight.
Jacqui and I have been dining out much less since Covid, from 2-3 times a week to 1-2 times a month. We also stopped picking up subs and getting takeout, which we did all the time before Covid. When we were both working, food high in fat, sugar, and salt was our stress relief of choice. We often turned the leftovers into meals at home by adding some rice and veggies.
During Covid, I improved my cooking skills a lot. I can now make really tasty stuff at home, even sushi. Thanks Youtube! (it's way better when you pay for no ads) At first, I made dishes we'd get when eating out, and I ate way too much of what I was making, and the unforeseen consequence was ballooning up to 317lbs by Spring 2021. Oops....I know. bad. I made the mistake of assuming home cooking automatically meant fewer calories, and I spent most of Covid wearing stretchy sweatpants. Lesson learned. Now I check every morning before breakfast, and record my daily weigh-ins and blood pressure on a Google Spreadsheet and it's shared with my doctor's office to stay accountable. I'll never go months/years at a time without stepping on a scale again, and (note to self) put on some non-stretch, big boy pants occasionally! (trousers to you Brits)
Biking and Exercise
But back to this year, I'm biking a lot again. I even have a computer-controlled bike trainer up in the attic (Rouvy.com), so I can ride during the Winter or when the weather isn't good outside. Our attic is well insulated and temp controlled, like the rest of the house. Combining my outdoor and indoor bike rides, I've biked 2,300 miles so far this year and will definitetly hit 2500 before year's end. Technically half what I could do in my early 20's, but I'm very thankful my joints still feel ok 30+ years later. Super Thankful
Here's a blog with more detail about my biking and exercise in general,
How and maybe When to Exercise when you're heavy and trying to lose weight
Viva Longevity Youtube channel
I've learned a lot about what's actually "healthy" by watching this guy's youtube channel Viva Longevity He loves reading all the latest books and papers about clinical and epidemiological diet/exercise research, and he's great at summarizing things in easy to understand ways. The videos focus on aging well and living a long active healthy life; it can be nerdy though, consider yourself warned, like medical doctor level nerdy. It's not the gym bro/fitness fad content that pollutes so much of Youtube.
Weight Goal
My goal is to get under 220lbs/100kg, which at almost 6'3" is still "overweight" per the BMI chart, but I'm a big guy. Yeah, yeah...sounds like the excuse "I'm not fat! I'm big boned!" (South Park). Maybe I'll keep going later, but I want a weight I can actually get to, maintain and not be miserable. I think as you get older carrying an extra 10-20 pounds is probably a good thing. A little belly fat helps you survive the health hiccups that come later in life. I have zero interest in competing in races or getting 6pack abs (sorry Jacqui)
Weight Loss Conclusion(s)
I finally learned losing weight is a lot easier when you combine exercise with eating tasty, healthy, filling, and lower calorie food. Much easier than fasting, skipping breakfast, and/or relying on Will Power to eat smaller portions of high calorie, highly processed food.
- Find your motivation
- For me, I love biking, kayaking, and hiking more than junk food, and carrying so much extra weight was making those things less fun.
- I retired early so I'd have the time to lose the weight and get healthy; I consider it my job now. A heart attack or stroke gets really expensive, really fast. Do Your Job!
- Exercise is a celebration of what your body can do, not a punishment for "eating too much"
- Find tasty, healthy, lower calorie foods that trigger a "feel good" response.
- Of course pizza/hamburgers/fries taste better than a healthy lentil curry (to most people), but I feel better after eating the lentil curry. No food coma or bloating. "Feeling good" is addictive, and it's changed what I crave over time.
- when weight loss stalls, you've probably lost enough weight to lower your daily calorie needs, (known as your BMR basal metabolic rate). well done! Time to tweak your diet again
- when changing diet/exercise, always focus on what you enjoy and can do for the long term
- Celebrate the little wins along the way, break down the big goal into smaller achievements
- probably my next milestones will be hitting 243 (50lbs!) and then 239 (officially "overweight" at 239, but no longer "obese" per BMI)
Anyway, hopefully I've shared something useful above.
Thank You's
A huge Thank You! to Jacqui for supporting me during all the lifestyle changes this year. She never complained when I went out on a ride for a few hours; actually, she usually seemed happy about it (should I be worried? jk). She's been great about eating the bean and lentil stuff without complaint, and discreetly taking care of her own cravings when needed. She'd just occasionally get her own lunch when out running errands or meeting up with friends. As Jacqui told me once, "I managed to get a PhD, I think I can feed myself! " Topped off with a well-delivered, sarcastic, "Thank you very much..." zinger. But seriously, Jacqui's independence made this all so much easier for me.
Also, a big Thanks to Jeff and my parents. I'm sure some of my texts about my weight loss project were boring and/or annoying at times this past year. Thanks for celebrating my little milestones along the way. The encouragement was appreciated!
And that about wraps things up for now. I'll blog with some updates soon.
Wishing you all Happiness, Good Health, and Success following your own path.











